Chapter 20: Reflection

If one does not consider what one thinks or does, it can create untold butterfly affects. Hope is like a small firefly that brings light to the soul. If one does not have hope or love, then they can be likened to a tree that hasn't been properly maintained. A light in the room glows not for it's own glorification, but for the satisfaction of the beholder. If one leaves a salt lamp on during the night, then there is the risk of being visited by wind spiders. If shoes which are worn are neglected, then their smell will drive a man out of a room. If one startles a bird in a nest, then don't be surprised by an unannounced intrusion in the near future. If one holds a burning match for too long, then when it goes out, would cause unnecessary damage to the observer's body. If one is wise during shower time, they will avoid the soap that contains menthol. If one is to shave, then it is best to set a particular time to shave. If one shaves too frequently, then they will experience dry or flaking skin. It isn't good for a woman to submit to a man all the time, because it will not only affect her emotional health but also her mental health. If a man truly cares for a woman he admires, then he will make the arrangements or time to spend quality time emotionally or physically. If a woman starts to feel emotionally drained, then sometimes she will redirect her attention to a different subject. If in the pursuit of love, never prematurely put all one's eggs into the one basket, by doing so, if it doesn't work out, then one would have to start from scratch. A woman should never feel vulnerable in the presence of her network of friends. A woman should always trust her mental capacities and observe before making a final decision on any subject. If one loses their focus on the task at hand, not only would it take longer to complete the task but it would also affect the next tasks in the future. If one makes hasty decisions without thinking of the long term, then they are likened to the rabbit who failed the race against the tortoise. The one who contemplates all the possible outcomes of a situation before making a final verdict will succeed if they think carefully before making a move. One who talks before thinking is likened to a donkey braying in a field of horses. A woman who sleeps with every man she fancies is likened to a white lotus in a murky pond. A man or a woman who protects their loins, to them, they are blessed. One reckless decision can topple an empire, and so can one decision of whom to be in a relationship with. It isn't advisable for a woman emotionally bond with a man who has slept around, for if she does, then she will one day feel shame the day she falls ill. A wise one will choose a partner who has less experience, and by doing so protect their health. Just as a moth is drawn to a flame, so is an unwise man who is unable to protect his mind from a lose woman. A woman who sees trouble coming, then will protect herself by taking a separate path or go incognito. A woman who lies to herself about an unsafe situation, then will feel dissatisfied and hurt later. If one is bleeding, then it is good to stem the bleeding by placing cayenne directly on the cut. If one experiences a cat scratch, then it is good to have frankincense and olive oil blend to directly apply on the wound. By doing so not only does it disinfect the wound but also helps prevent a large scar.