The author of Don't Cry was Qu Xiaoqu. However, the search results did not mention other novels written by Qu Xiaoqu. Therefore, I don't know what other novels Qu Xiaoqu recommended.
The source of this sentence was a poem in the novel 'Dream of the Red Chamber', written by Cao Xueqin. This sentence came from the fifth chapter, which described Jia Baoyu dreaming that he had turned into a flower and the people around him called him the "rich and noble flower". This sentence expressed Jia Baoyu's pursuit and yearning for his social status and wealth, and also expressed his emphasis on his appearance and temperament.
The novels recommended by Miss Don't Cry included " A Sunny Early Spring,"" A Good Night Together,"" The Rain in front of the River stops,"" Six Thousand Morning Dusk,"" Miss Chatterbox,"" You Say Life is Beautiful, I Have No Objection,"" Spring Return,"" You and the Wind and Moon,"" The Fat Queen," and so on. These novels were all masterpieces of Miss Don't Cry, and each had its own unique charm and storyline.
Chasing the wind and chasing the moon, don't stop. There was no complete poem, just a sentence. This sentence came from Tian Xin's " Hua Xia Shuo " of the Ming Dynasty. It meant," Don't stop when you are chasing the wind and the moon, because at the end of the plain covered with vegetation, there are spring mountains."
I can't answer a poem that complains that women don't know how to be flirtatious. Style was a subjective feeling, while poetry was an art of expressing emotions. Usually, images, comparisons, and other techniques were used to express the author's emotions. Therefore, if he wanted to express his complaints about women not knowing how to flirt, he might need to use more objective language or figurative techniques to express it.