One common element is the element of surprise. People often don't expect to fall for their best friends, like it just sneaks up on them. For example, you might be in a normal day - to - day situation with your friend, like having coffee, and suddenly you see them in a different way.
Well, there's this story. My best friend, Tom, and I were always together. We liked the same music, same movies. Then, at a music concert we went to together, he was so into the music, dancing and singing along. In that moment, I noticed how much fun he was and how his eyes sparkled. And that's when I fell for him. It was strange as we were best buds before that, but feelings can be unexpected.
Some end happily. The two friends realize their mutual feelings and start a romantic relationship. They build on the strong foundation of their friendship and often have a very deep and loving connection.
My own story is that I was best friends with Mark. We used to do everything together, from studying to going on hikes. One time, we went on a long trip together. During that trip, we faced a lot of difficulties but also had so many great memories. I found myself falling for him as I saw how he was always there for me, protecting me and making me laugh. It was a very natural process for me. But I was worried about ruining our friendship, so it took me a while to admit my feelings.
One common challenge is the fear of ruining the friendship. Since they were friends first, they are afraid that if the romantic relationship doesn't work out, they will lose that precious friendship forever.
Well, there's a story about Sarah and Mark. They were best friends in college. They used to study together all the time. One semester, they were paired for a big project. As they worked closely, Sarah noticed how Mark was always so thoughtful and kind. She gradually fell for him. Mark, on the other hand, had been secretly liking Sarah for a while too. Eventually, they confessed their feelings and now they're engaged.
One common element is the long - time acquaintance. Since they are best friends, they usually have known each other for a long time. Another is the moment of realization, like in a dangerous situation or during a time when they support each other deeply. For example, in a story I know, the girl realized she loved her best friend when he took care of her when she was ill.
First, you could try to drop some hints and see how he reacts. Maybe make a comment about a couple you saw that reminded you of the two of you in a more-than -friends way. If he seems receptive, then you can gradually be more open about your feelings.
Well, the first thing you could do is talk to him. Just be honest about your feelings. If you're too scared to do that all at once, you can start by dropping some hints and see how he reacts. Maybe he feels the same way and is just as afraid to say it.
I haven't personally had this experience, but I know someone who did. He was really good friends with a girl. They did everything together. One day, he noticed that he was jealous when she started dating someone else. That's when he realized he had fallen for her. He was afraid to tell her at first, but after a while, he gathered the courage. Unfortunately, she didn't feel the same way, and it was really hard on him for a long time.