First, you must immediately reject the request as it is inappropriate. Then, try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Explain to her that this goes against your values and the boundaries of a healthy relationship. It could be that she is influenced by something abnormal or she has some misunderstandings. If the situation persists or gets worse, seeking professional help, like relationship counseling, might be a good option. Because in a normal relationship, both parties should respect each other's dignity and boundaries.
It is highly abnormal. Marriage is a union based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect. Any form of request that involves such inappropriate and non - consensual behavior is a sign of a very troubled relationship. In a normal marriage, partners should communicate about positive, healthy, and respectful things, not engage in or demand actions that are clearly against social and moral norms.
First, make it clear that the request is unacceptable. You can say, 'That's not something that's okay to ask about. Everyone's body is their own private thing.' Then, depending on the situation, you might want to talk to an appropriate adult, like a parent or guardian, about the incident to ensure that she is taught the right values regarding privacy and appropriate behavior.
One way is through education. Teach people about moral and ethical values from a young age so they can recognize inappropriate content.
The husband should first take a moment to collect his thoughts. Then, he should have an open and honest conversation with his wife. He could say something like 'I'm shocked that you would even think of such a thing. Our relationship is based on loyalty and respect, and this goes completely against that.' He may also suggest seeking professional help, like couples counseling, to address the underlying issues that might have led to such a request.
This kind of story involves inappropriate and unethical content. Such content is not acceptable in a civilized and moral society.
One should firmly and clearly say no. There's no room for negotiation in such an unethical and inappropriate matter.
If possible, gently but firmly remind the person using such language that it's inappropriate. For example, say 'That's not appropriate language to use here.'
One should firmly reject listening to or spreading such stories. If possible, tell the person spreading it that this is inappropriate and unethical behavior.
In a social setting, you can directly say that this is an inappropriate topic and suggest discussing something more positive and friendly, like upcoming community events or shared interests. If the person persists, it may be necessary to distance yourself from them.
A straightforward 'No' is a good start. Then make it clear that this is a very private matter and not something to be shared in that way.