章節 28: How Many Types Of Dating?
"I think I want to hear the story of you guys when you were little, it sounded really exciting."
"Hehe... It's fun, I'll tell you sometime." Raden nodded his head enthusiastically, "God is really good to send me a friend like Haidar, he is always there for me when I'm sad or whatever it is Haidar is always beside me. Well even though I sometimes like to be upset with her ignorant attitude, but if I'm sad her attitude is like that it just makes me entertained."
Again Raden nodded his head in agreement, "Heeum... I see it too, Haidar really cares about all things about you. For example, here's everything you do Haidar should know or even be involved in. But with his attitude like that makes you uncomfortable don't you, Rain?"
The girl's forehead frowned, "Uncomfortable...How do you mean?"
Raden shrugged his shoulders quickly, "it's not that Haidar always wants to know about what you do every day on the other hand you also have privacy, then are you comfortable with Haidar's attitude that looks like possessiveness? If so, he seems to want to know about you. Then are you comfortable?"
"No, all this time I was used to the attitude of Haidar that you said was possessive. He wanted to know what I was doing every day but Haidar always knew the limit where he could know or not, he also did not force me to make up a story. I think I've been comfortable with Haidar's attitude." Raina replied, "What do you see?"
Raden looked at Raina briefly, "I see Haidar is very possessive with you, you are just friends but Haidar's possessive attitude is like with his girlfriend, Rain."
"Eumm... As long as I'm still comfortable with Haidar's seemingly possessive nature, I don't mind it. In fact, I'm glad that Haidar really cares about me so much, it means that the friendship between me and Haidar is very close. Actually, I already consider Haidar like my own brother because of our closeness, plus my parents and Haidar's parents are also close like family."
Raden nodded his head understandably, "Ohhh.. Well, it's okay if you're comfortable, because I'm afraid you're not comfortable with Haidar's attitude like that. But, I used to think that you guys were dating because of your closeness and Haidar often played to our faculty so I thought you guys were dating."
Raina chuckled, "It impossible I'm dating with my best friend."
"Out there a lot, indeed you have never heard of love that grows in a friendship between a girl and a guy?" Raina was silent, "Either it was one of them or both had the same feelings. Some even married Rain, even though at first they were just friends but could get to the aisle." Raden continued.
"Weve yes? I've heard it but I don't really care too much, eummm if the case is like that it's not wrong either if love grows between friendship relationships right? They must always meet every day and be close like me and Haidar so it's possible that one of us both has a sense of love."
Raina sighed, "But we also cannot forbid love to grow to anyone, if love grows to our own friends there is nothing wrong with it. Love grows because it is comfortable because they often meet may arise a sense of comfort over time that comfort so like to continue to arise a sense of love, the human heart weve no one knows because who is good at flipping through the human heart is only God."
Raden clapped his hands and smiled at Raina's words, "You are very smart about this kind of problem, even though you have never been dating but can already talk about Love, Rain."
"Even though I've never dated and don't want to date doesn't mean I don't understand love, Aden."
"In our religion it is forbidden to courtship and will be a sin for anyone who does it, in addition to sin can also cause slander." Raina continued.
"But there is such a thing as a healthy courtship, Rain. In syaa Allah does not make sins, they are indeed dating but just reminding prayer, not holding hands, not doing things that cause slander. They did not violate God's law. It's different with unhealthy relationships."
"What about unhealthy relationships? I just found out that dating is of two kinds." Raina asked with a laugh and raised two fingers.
Because he just found out that dating is divided into two categories.
Healthy dating and unhealthy dating.
Although Raina doesn't really care about what types of courtship are, at least she asked for an explanation first from Raden.
"Dating is not healthy for example... Eummm." Raden stopped his footsteps making Raina who had been walking beside the match also stopped.
"Emmmm like..." murmured the guy while looking around to find the object he wanted to make research haha.
Raina was confused to see Raden who seemed to be looking for something, Raina didn't know what Raden was looking for.
Raina just asked about the unhealthy courtship like how but why Raden looks confused like so, what exactly Raden also do not know (?)
"Aden if you don't know, don't explain."
"That's it!!" screeching Raden excited to make people who are there looking at him as well as making Raina a little embarrassed.
"Aden ihhh, everyone is looking at us because you are screaming." rebuke Raina.
Raden, who was the center of attention, could only smile shyly while stroking his nape, "Eheheh... Sorry Rain. Then let's get out of here, I'm clear about dating unhealthy anytime."
Set
Without waiting for Raina to answer the guy already pulled Raina first to immediately continue the journey to the parking lot.
"Why did you scream like that? It's because of you that everyone is looking at us." Raina nagged at Raden after the guy took his hands off Raina.
Why didn't Raina get angry when Raden held her hand?
At that time when Haidar hugged his shoulders, Raina was immediately angry.
Maybe Raina thought that Raden attracted her because of reflexes and there was no element of intent.
Raina was also unconscious.
"I want to give you an example of unhealthy dating."
"Does it exist?"
Raden again stopped his footsteps, "Look at the two people who were there." show that guy to the two people in front of there ,"That's an example of unhealthy dating." Raden whispered to Raina.
Because Raden's face was very close, Raina did not dare to look at Raden.
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