If she got together with Brother He, she would want more, as that's just human nature; once you have something, you don't want to lose it. She wasn't a saint; she didn't possess such a generous mindset.
If Brother He broke up with her in the future, she would be very hurt. Therefore, not starting at all was the best choice.
He Nan frowned slightly, "We won't break up."
His tone was very firm, "The things you mentioned aren't problems. My marriage is my own business; no one can force me to marry someone I don't want to. I will buy another house in the future, and we won't have to live with the elders after getting married. As long as I'm here, no one can bully you."
Respecting elders doesn't mean blindly following them. He Nan had always been a person of conviction, clearly understanding when to compromise and when not to.