" Life is how you make it and what you make out of every situation so it's mostly those who have the eyes for finding solutions in problems that makes it bigger. Yes! money is good and coming from a rich home gives you an upper hand to make it but when you're given millions of dollars and you're not visionary enough and willing to take risks, you'll still not be able to make it. There's been billionaires and millionaires who with time lost their fortune because they weren't visionary enough to know how to invest. We have been made to believe that, money is the currency of investment but that's a lie. The currency of investment is planning, being focused and visionary, building and maintaining good relationships, service and respect for one's self and other people. Money is one of the many values like honour, reputation, respect, a good name, association, connections, opportunities gifts and positions a good investment brings."
"I have read and seen many people who came from poor backgrounds and grew up poor but then those people broke the stereotype of poverty and became not just rich but wealthy with affluence not only in their communities or nations but worldwide. They have become household names not because they invested money but because invested skills, dreams, focus, vision, service, respect, planning and relationships they got the value of money and affluence in return and these people have become motivations which is an asset to this world. Have you read about Jennifer Lopez, her struggles and how she broke the stereotype of poverty to become rich? What about Oprah Winfrey and Ralph Lauren? Don't let your background be your dream aborter but let it be your dream initiative and fight to make it. Remember the dream isn't to just be wealthy but to be affluent enough to change lives and the world to be better so you have to do it right and in the right way too. Before I end, I just want you to know that, your name doesn't have to be known worldwide but your name must definitely be known by lives you changed, helped and developed. Whatever a man sows he reaps and his harvest is dependent on the kind of soil he used as well." Phyllis ended her speech and went to take her seat.
"Everyone present was awed by her words, she isn't just a woman with visions but with wisdom and knowledge. What a bright young woman. Becca, I think you have a role model now."An elderly woman seated next to Denzel told her young daughter and he couldn't have been more proud of her than now. Phyllis moved to sit besides Denzel and when she was asked by the chief protocol officer her reasons for switching seats, she said " that's my loving husband, the head of my family. I wouldn't have been doing this well without his support and the fact that I get to be honoured doesn't mean that I dishonor him. He's my beautiful help". The lady smiled and walked away. Denzel with honour placed his hand at the back of her hands and kissed her on the cheek. "Wow! the elderly woman turned to her daughter, she's humble and respectful too." Denzel turned to the woman with a smile and said, "my wife is a very great woman with flaws too, so please don't be hard on your girl when she makes mistakes. She'll learn from them but this isn't to say that you shouldn't correct her. Please correct her so that she doesn't grow to be a pain to you and other people." The woman thanked him for his advice and encouragement.
When the program was coming to an end, the girls prefect of the High School which organised the program was called to give a Thanksgiving remarks. She stood for a while dumbfounded and then humbly asked " Mrs. Mansford, did you come from a poor background and did you grow up poor? Phyllis stood up and walked to the stage. With her hands on the young lady's shoulder, she turned to look in her eyes because she wanted the lady to know that she understood her. " I came from a poor background with a bad name because my dead had been wrongly accused of embezzlement by his former employer and was sacked from his job. He could not get a job for years because in the banking sector when you're sacked from work especially on the basis of embezzlement, no one employed you. My mother was also struggling because it was difficult for a woman to make headway in our society since it is a man's world. So we struggled though my father took to menial jobs to support us. I was determined to bring my dreams into reality and I didn't have it easy. You know how students are bullied in school even if they're brilliant but comes from a poor background but I was determined to make it though I sometimes felt like giving up but I had hope because I mostly read the Bible apart from other books. My parents also cheered me on and that was my biggest support. Wherever you come from isn't a limitation though sometimes it plays a major role in your development. Your mind is your greatest asset or limitation depending on how you use it and Sweetheart you have to have your own definition of success else if you go by the world's definition you would never be content and you will lose yourself in the end." Phyllis hugged her and whispered into her ears " you can make it, Sweetheart and i am your biggest fan and supporter. Don't fail me. " The girl broke into tears on her shoulders but she comforted her and wiped her tears with her handkerchief. Everyone was amazed at Phyllis' intelligence and how she handled the lady. They all stood up clapping for her and Denzel walked to the stage to walk her to her seat. He was a proud husband and seized the opportunity to show it. The girls' prefect put herself together and said " thank you Mrs. Mansford for your words, they aren't just encouraging but they're words of development as well. Thank you to the organisers of this program and for your choice of speaker today, we have never encountered life's journey in this kind of reality before and to our parents and guardians thank you for bringing us to this school and for supporting us today as always. God bless us all."
Phyllis requested that they leave before the close of the program else she would steal the headmistress' honour and shine if they wait for the program to close. Most of the people would gather to acknowledge her instead of the headmistress, so she pretended she was going out to receive an important call and walked out. Denzel followed her later and they drove home. She texted the headmistress that she had an emergency at work and needed to attend to it. Denzel was quiet all through their drive but when he had parked the car, she whispered her name and she turned to look at him. " When I met you, I knew you were smart but I never thought it was this deep. You keep surprising me everyday. I couldn't have been a proud husband to any other wife but you. I just can't phantom why you're still humble and submissive to me in spite of the prominence you're gaining. Your love for me is even better than before. What's your reason, honey?" She giggled "do you see all these to be my efforts alone, Dee? You're the pivot in all of this. What if you had forced me to be a house wife? What if you weren't giving me peace and what if you were womanising? What if you didn't help with the home management and made certain sacrifices for me? I am the face of all these but you're the workforce behind the scene and I want you to know that, I am grateful for everything especially your love and understanding. She humbly responded to him.
Denzel had been aroused by her and he couldn't control herself so he pushed her seat backwards and began to kiss her. He kissed her deeply with his tongue deep inside her mouth. It was like he was trying to swallow her tongue. He later dipped his head into her chest and began to suck her breasts. It was easy because she was wearing an off shoulder straight dress. He later pulled his trousers down since he was wearing a kaftan and didn't need to support his trousers with a belt. He shifted her pants to the side and rode her till she squirted. They both enjoyed the lovemaking not only because he performed so well but also because it was done with feelings of appreciation and recognition. Phyllis looked at him and said " I have always wanted to be fucked in a car because I know it's an adventure of it's own. Being nervous of being caught and all that, thanks babes. "Crazy bad ass woman. If only people knew you were this crazy as well." Denzel said to her and they both laughed about it and walked naked to their room because there was no one there. This couple couldn't be happier than they were.