Shortly after lunch, and the whole debacle and conversation, Amir and Ben retreated so that Amir could get some rest. They were planning to head out on their honeymoon the next day, with one day of rest in between so that Amir could be fully ready, have a check in with their Doctor, and get a full bill of health before leaving.
His grandparents were planning to leave shortly after the new husbands left. They had taken time out of when they were usually checking in on their mines and workers this time of the year to attend the wedding. Of course, they never said it was a bother, but that some things were just ingrained into their lives after doing them for so long.
It was apparently a good time of year to do so, and it also helped them set the trends for the next year. It wasn't something that Andrew had ever considered, since it wasn't on his radar, and he was fascinated to hear about it from them.
Andrew's forgetting the apron. If he put the apron on, immediately he fits in. It softens him immensely.