章 27: OFFICE

<p>Hello!<br/>Mercy said walking towards the entrance my office along side Mr Mike.<br/><br/>Welcome!<br/>I'm i safe, i need to know because my heart is raising and need to know however i hope its not money issue though. LOL.<br/>Laughter!<br/>Well! we need to get serious here. While you where away some files came though and find saying that the document we sent<br/>to them was all cold.<br/>THE BETRAYAL<br/>what is betrayal to you?<br/>Tobi's question!<br/>Second Chance After Betrayal.<br/>Giving love a chance to find expression in ones self is the outmost feeling one can acquire for him/herself.....<br/>Yes betrayal can damage ones mindset. Due to betrayal one can change the way he sees things and control his attitude towarwds and ones way of relating to poeple above the one they truely love.<br/>Breaking ones trust and hurting one by making them lose confidence in them selves is all an act of betrayal.<br/>In her very own opinion ,betrayal is an act of breaking one's trust, confidence, of a moral standard.<br/>When you're betrayed by someone you love and cherish with your whole heart, what would be your next steps to take as to follow the situation?<br/>Are you willing to let go and move on or stay put and have a good time revenge?<br/>Well as for me, i would say that you give love a second chance and see what comes out of it, there would be happiness or even worse from the previous betrayal.<br/>But in a situation where your heart is made up and there's nothing taking you back to such a toxic and un-productive relationship or friendship with a person or two, who has made your life miserable, painful hurting and also regretful then i think, obviously it's time to take a step forward....<br/><br/>How do you do this?<br/>Calling out yourself and challenging you to see within yourself first.<br/>NOTE: CHANGE STARTS WITH YOU FIRST!!<br/>Once you're able to identify and rectify your problems from within you {inner self}, there you begin to see what has been missing in your own life first, and probably might be just the reason why you were betrayed by that particular person or individual who hurt you.<br/>Taking a step back simply means cutting all ties you have with the person for your growth to be established. You can not move forward without a PUSH. you need to stand up, talk to yourself and then move on.<br/>Getting over something isn't just about forgiving alone it's also letting go so you can find peace within you PERSONALLY aspiring yourself to greatness and success.<br/>"BETRAYAL" as it sounds, does more harm to a person. Sometimes it might restructure you as it might as well re-molled you.<br/>it takes more to just saying "SORRY" to a person you just betrayed. at times people often think saying sorry heals the wound completely.. But it takes more to destroy once joy, happiness, peace, faith and above all trust.<br/>its best you keep out of breaking a trust one has given to you just because you want to be wickd and heartless.<br/>Trust isn't easily earned, you work for it deligently and whole heartedly.<br/><br/>BE BRAVE AND FIND TRUE LOVE .<br/>Rebranding you and reshaping your life is also a means of bravery.<br/>I say it's self fullfilment/contentment, you spoke to youself. You know yourself better than anyone in life, you know where to change and what need to change. Now you pick them one after the other work on them and get yourself a better life cos there's a whole life ahead of you called THE FUTURE.<br/>In doing this remember the saying "You dress the way you want to be addressed'.<br/>You were able to work on yourself, working on yourself isn't going for something lesser or smaller, your dreams are wide, unlimited so you act according to what you see your innerself doing in your mind set could be in a luxirious car, vaccation,buying an appartment , shopping, going all ghost or hanging around with friends and family.<br/>With such mindset you dream of someone double your standard, and as well better than your past. moving forward from your past or the pains that put you on hold for long is a DEVINE!<br/>Now you can breathe good air, eat healthy look nice, smell nice, e.t.c.<br/>It is said that all deception is prepartion for betrayal. Well 100% right, when a person is deceived one shouldnt expect the same energy you once received when he/she was opened to you.<br/>Deception i'd say is number one on the list of breaking trust.<br/>Where there's no trust there's no hope, and without hope there's future And in the absence of all this everything dies.<br/>Why kill the trust someone took sleepless night GIVE.<br/>Why give someone the mindset of ownership and then destroy it within a twinkle of an eye?<br/>OK!<br/>You finally succeed in breaking and destroying that special thing built in a wonderful heart, what and how do you intend repair such a broken heart?<br/><br/>The best thing for a person to do is before you commence on anything you want to do think of the positive and negative side.<br/>Ask yourself if i do this particular thing i want to do would it or would there be a positive change or negative change?<br/>How would i profit from it, of what use is this particular thing one needs to consider before making a decision or taking a step over something.<br/>How about you stay strong and keep the positive energy?<br/>Lost cause this is differient.</p>