"That kind of marriage is a failure for me. Now that she's a widow and I'm unmarried, I want to be in a relationship of my own free will! If she doesn't have the determination to be with me for life, then I'd rather not marry her!"
Madam President didn't quite understand what her son meant. "What do you mean by that?"
"I mean it literally. I have my own thoughts. Mom, if a person really likes me and really loves me, she would throw herself into my arms regardless of everything, even if it was a moth flying into the fire. But Lulu is too calm and rational. There can't be only one threshold in life. In the future, we have a long life to pass through all kinds of tests. If she can't hold my hand tightly, if she can't be in the same boat as me, then what's the point of me marrying her?"