"I can't make promises on behalf of Jingting, but I can assure you that I will live a good life in the future."
"Men are not always reliable, what makes you think your good intentions are enough?"
"But besides Jingting, I have my academic and future career. I have two lovely children, and the best parents in the world. Why can't I live a good life? If one day I can't continue to be with Jingting, I would be very sad, but my world would not collapse. I have other things in my life to keep me moving forward."
This was a new viewpoint for Lijun and it greatly intrigued her.
"Being Yu Jingting's wife is just one of my identities. I love Jingting deeply, but he is not everything in my life. Besides him, I also love you, my father, our children, my career, and everything else worthy of love. I am an independent individual and I don't need others to be responsible for my happiness. I can be responsible for myself."