In other words, what Kyle is trying to say is that he does not want anyone to plan things between him and Anna. He wants things to happen in the right way. Anna should not be forced to be with him just because that is what his grandfather and Anna's grandfather agreed to join their families together.
Arion is astonished at how well Kyle said those words. It showed him that Kyle is willing to do anything to make Anna willingly say yes to him.
These few words just reminded him of how he was willing to do anything just to get that sweet reply from Mary.
If he continues to be such a hindrance between his daughter and Kyle, it will make him look like a bad guy who is getting in the way of a very sincere man. 'It seems like I have to be less stubborn from now own.' Arion inwardly commented.