Inosuke doesn't become a Hashira in the manga. The story progresses with him having other significant experiences and achievements instead of achieving that specific position.
It's hard to give an exact number. Different story arcs and battles led to the deaths of multiple hashira. Some died heroically, while others met their fate in unexpected ways. The count changes as the manga progresses.
Definitely not. Genya remains outside the ranks of Hashira throughout the manga. This is because of a combination of factors such as his skills, experiences, and the overall direction of the story.
He might be really surprised. Naruto is used to his own world and the fanfiction could show things he never imagined. For example, if the fanfiction has his kids achieving great things in new ways, he'd be proud yet a bit shocked at how creative fans can be.
He might be shocked at how the village has developed. In some fanfictions, the village could have advanced technology. Naruto, being from a more traditional ninja world, would likely be both amazed and a bit confused at first.
He might be shocked at first. In fanfiction, the future could be full of unexpected changes. He could be excited to see how his friends and the village have developed. Maybe he'd be a bit sad if things didn't turn out as he hoped for his loved ones.