Inosuke doesn't become a Hashira in the manga. The story progresses with him having other significant experiences and achievements instead of achieving that specific position.
It's hard to give an exact number. Different story arcs and battles led to the deaths of multiple hashira. Some died heroically, while others met their fate in unexpected ways. The count changes as the manga progresses.
Definitely not. Genya remains outside the ranks of Hashira throughout the manga. This is because of a combination of factors such as his skills, experiences, and the overall direction of the story.
He would probably be quite amused by some of his past antics. For example, his constant pranks on Iruka-sensei. But at the same time, he'd also see the pain he carried from not having his parents and realize how that influenced his actions. He might react with a bit of regret for some of the stupid things he did out of loneliness, but also be glad that those experiences made him who he is today.