The Hashiras would likely show concern. Some, like Shinobu, would immediately start looking into possible medical solutions. Giyuu might be more reserved in his worry but would still keep a close eye on Tanjiro. The other demon slayers would also be affected. They look up to Tanjiro, so his sickness would lower the morale of the group. They would try to support each other while waiting for Tanjiro to recover.
Diane would probably be overjoyed. She's always been close to Meliodas and Elizabeth, and she would likely offer to protect them and help out in any way she can. Maybe she'd use her giant strength to build a special place for them to stay during the pregnancy.
Ban would probably be excited and start thinking about all the fun things he could teach the baby, like how to steal food without getting caught in a humorous way. King might be a bit more reserved at first but then offer to make the most beautiful crib with his powers. Diane would be super excited and offer to babysit all the time, cooing over how cute the baby will be.
Inosuke doesn't become a Hashira in the manga. The story progresses with him having other significant experiences and achievements instead of achieving that specific position.
It's hard to give an exact number. Different story arcs and battles led to the deaths of multiple hashira. Some died heroically, while others met their fate in unexpected ways. The count changes as the manga progresses.
Definitely not. Genya remains outside the ranks of Hashira throughout the manga. This is because of a combination of factors such as his skills, experiences, and the overall direction of the story.