The 'akaza sad story' might refer to the tragic backstory of Akaza from Demon Slayer. Akaza was once a human with a strong will. He had a family and a normal life, but due to various misfortunes and being turned into a demon against his will, he lost his humanity and was forced to do cruel things. He also had a lot of inner struggles as he still retained some of his human emotions deep down, which made his story a sad one.
Inosuke doesn't become a Hashira in the manga. The story progresses with him having other significant experiences and achievements instead of achieving that specific position.
It's hard to give an exact number. Different story arcs and battles led to the deaths of multiple hashira. Some died heroically, while others met their fate in unexpected ways. The count changes as the manga progresses.