One common theme is the female taking charge in relationships. For example, in some stories, the dominant female decides when and how they go on dates, what activities they engage in. Another theme could be the female being the main decision - maker in the bedroom, dictating the pace and nature of sexual encounters. And sometimes, the stories might involve the dominant female being in control of the financial aspects of a relationship as well, which in turn gives her more power and dominance.
It can be ethical when it adheres to principles of respect and consent. Both the dominant man and the person surrendering need to be fully aware of what they are getting into. They should be able to freely enter and exit the relationship dynamic. There should also be no abuse of power or harm caused to either party. When these conditions are met, the concept within these stories can be seen as ethical within the context of a consensual relationship.
One type could be the traditional gender - role - based dominant sex stories, where in a heterosexual context, the male is often portrayed as the dominant figure in the sexual relationship. Another type might involve power dynamics in more complex relationships, like in BDSM - inspired stories where the concept of dominance and submission is explored consensually.
One example could be Anastasia Steele from the 'Fifty Shades' series. Although Christian Grey is initially presented as the more dominant figure, Anastasia shows her own brand of dominance as the story progresses, especially in terms of her emotional boundaries and how she stands up to him. Another example is the character in some erotic short stories where the female is a powerful businesswoman who also dominates in her sexual relationships. She dictates the terms of when and where they meet for sexual encounters.
There are also some independent films that explore such themes. For example, 'Carol' has elements where one character, Carol, can be seen as having a more dominant role in the relationship at times. Her confidence and the way she initiates and guides the relationship in certain aspects can be considered as signs of dominance in their lesbian relationship.
One well - known example could be from the novel 'Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit' by Jeanette Winterson. It delves into the relationship of a young lesbian woman in a complex and often dominant - themed relationship within the context of her life and society. Another might be found in some works of Sappho's poetry, which, while often fragmentary, gives glimpses into relationships between women that could be interpreted as having elements of dominance in an emotional or physical sense.
One example could be in the story 'Fifty Shades of Grey' where Anastasia Steele shows dominance in certain aspects of her relationship with Christian Grey. For instance, she stands up for her boundaries and what she wants in the relationship, which can be seen as a form of dominance.
Sharing such stories is highly unethical. These types of stories often involve non - consensual and inappropriate content. Prison is a place where people are supposed to be rehabilitating, and spreading such salacious and improper tales violates the privacy and dignity of inmates and goes against basic moral and ethical standards.