This is completely unacceptable in a healthy relationship. Such a situation involves a serious breach of boundaries and fidelity. A relationship should be based on mutual respect, trust, and monogamy.
No. Spying is generally not ethical. In relationships, trust is fundamental. If you suspect something wrong between your wife and your friend, it's better to communicate openly rather than spying. For example, in most healthy relationships, talking it out clears misunderstandings.
Sharing such stories is completely inappropriate and unethical. It involves violating the privacy and respect of others in a very serious way. It also goes against moral and social norms.
One story might be that your friend is a musician. When he visits your home, he starts playing the guitar. Your wife, who loves music, joins in and they start singing together. This creates a great atmosphere and from that moment, they often share music playlists and discuss different music genres. They might even go to local music concerts together. This kind of interaction can bring a lot of joy to both of them and also add a new dimension to your family's social life.
A wife has a friend who is into gardening. They often exchange plants and gardening tips. The wife learns a lot from her friend about different types of flowers and how to take care of them. Their friendship is centered around this common hobby.
My wife and my friend once had an interesting encounter at a community event. I introduced them to each other. My wife was really friendly and started chatting with my friend about gardening, which they both love. It was a simple moment but it made me realize how great it was that two important people in my life could get along so well.
Once, my wife became my best friend during a difficult time. I lost my job and was really down. Instead of scolding me or being disappointed, she was like a true friend. She sat with me, listened to my frustrations, and encouraged me to pursue my passion. We started a small business together, and through that journey, our relationship as both husband - wife and friends grew stronger.
In my career, my wife and friend were the ones who seduced me to take on a new project that seemed very daunting at first. My wife told me that I was the right person for it because of my skills and experience. My friend, who was also involved in a related project, shared how much he had learned from similar challenging tasks. Their words motivated me. I took on the project, and although it was difficult, I grew a lot professionally and also gained recognition in the company.