No, it's not appropriate. We live in a society that values respect and equality. Fantasizing in such a sexualized and discriminatory way goes against basic human values. We should strive to see people as individuals with dignity, not as objects for sexual fantasies based on certain physical characteristics.
Practice empathy. Try to put yourself in the shoes of others and think about how you would feel if you were objectified in such a way. Also, expose yourself to diverse media and cultures that promote positive images of all types of people.
Well, ethical considerations in this regard involve multiple aspects. Firstly, the most important is the consent of both parties. If both the fat old gay man and his partner freely choose to be in such a sexual relationship, then it's a private matter between them. However, we also need to take into account the broader social context, which might have some biases. But ultimately, if the relationship is based on positive values like care and mutual attraction, it can be seen as ethical.
The fat woman and the old man were neighbors. The fat woman had a large garden full of beautiful flowers. The old man was always admiring it from afar. One day, the old man mustered up the courage to ask if he could have a few flowers for his wife's grave. The fat woman was deeply touched. She not only gave him a big bouquet but also joined him at the grave. After that, they would often visit the grave together and became great companions.
There was a fat woman who ran a small grocery store in the city. An old man lived nearby. He would come to the store to buy his daily essentials. One day, the old man accidentally dropped his wallet outside the store. The fat woman found it and returned it to him. The old man was so grateful that he started to help the fat woman with small tasks around the store. This led to a warm friendship between them as they learned more about each other's lives.
There was this big fat tree in the middle of a forest. It was so huge that it could shelter dozens of animals during a storm. Birds made their nests on its branches, squirrels ran up and down its trunk. It was like a giant guardian of the forest. Many a time, lost hikers would find their way by using this big fat tree as a landmark.
This is highly unacceptable. Everyone has the right to be treated with dignity and respect. Spreading such a story is a violation of basic human decency. We should strive to create a world where all people are seen as equal and not be part of spreading such offensive material.