First of all, this is a very awkward and difficult situation. If it was an accidental sight, you may need to have a calm conversation with your wife about how she feels. And if it was inappropriate behavior from someone else, you should consider taking appropriate actions to protect your wife's feelings and rights, such as having a serious talk with the person involved or even seeking legal advice in extreme cases.
You can start by creating a calm and safe environment for her to talk. Assure her that she has nothing to be ashamed of. Maybe plan a special day out together, like going to her favorite place or having a nice dinner, to take her mind off this uncomfortable event.
One time my wife and I tried to paint our living room. We suck at painting. We got more paint on ourselves and the floor than on the walls. It took us twice as long as it should have to finish the job.
I'm not sure what exactly you mean by 'wife and i suck story'. If you mean a story about a difficult or challenging time with your wife, here is one. Once, my wife and I planned a big vacation but we suck at packing. We forgot so many important things like our toothbrushes and chargers. It made the start of our trip a bit chaotic.
It is completely unethical. Forcing any form of inappropriate or sexual behavior, even in the context of a story, violates basic principles of respect, consent, and human dignity. No one should be made to engage in any such demeaning act in any situation, real or fictional.
This is a rather uncomfortable situation. First, you could try to have an open and honest conversation with her in a gentle way. Ask her why she's doing it and express how it makes you feel.
It is completely inappropriate. In a healthy friendship, we should focus on positive aspects like shared interests, emotional support, and mutual respect. Crossing the line to ask about or view private body parts is not acceptable behavior in any civilized society.