One great surprise could be to recreate their first date. Set up the same location at home, cook the same meal, and play the same music. It'll bring back all those nostalgic feelings.
A simple and budget - friendly surprise could be to make a homemade coupon book. Fill it with things like 'one free back massage', 'a home - cooked meal of your choice', etc. It's personal and doesn't cost much.
Rather than inappropriate ideas, we can think of a story like 'The Husband and Wife's New Beginning on the 40th Birthday'. They could decide to start a new hobby together, like painting. They sign up for a painting class, and every day they paint together, exploring their creativity and deepening their bond.
This is a rather strange and inappropriate topic. We should focus on positive and respectful stories about relationships, such as a husband and wife celebrating a birthday with a romantic dinner or a special trip.
They could go on a hot air balloon ride. Floating in the air, they can enjoy the magnificent view and feel the tranquility together. It would be a very romantic and unique experience for their 40th birthday.
Plan a day trip to a place he has always wanted to go. It could be a nearby beach, a mountain for hiking, or a historical site. Pack a picnic lunch with all his favorite snacks and drinks. Along the way, play his favorite music in the car to make it even more special.
One story could be that the wife, knowing her husband's love for books, gives him a first - edition of his favorite classic novel as a birthday gift. He is overjoyed as he has been searching for it for years.
In most cases, it could be inappropriate as sex is a rather private matter. But if they have a very strong bond and have established clear communication rules about such topics, it could potentially be acceptable. For example, if they often have deep and open conversations about various aspects of their relationship including their sexual relationship in a very respectful and healthy way.
Yes, it can be normal in some relationships. It might be a way for her to spice up the relationship or be more open about her thoughts and experiences.
If your wife is into fitness, a new set of workout clothes or a fitness tracker could be a good gift. You could also plan a date night based on her interests. For example, if she loves movies, get tickets to a special screening and dinner at a nice restaurant nearby. A hand - made gift, like a knitted scarf or a painted picture, can also show your love and effort.