Spanking in a relationship is not an appropriate or healthy behavior in modern relationships. It involves physical aggression and violates the principle of equality and respect in marriage. Couples should communicate and resolve differences through positive and non - violent means.
The first time I got a spanking was when I disobeyed my grandmother. I was around seven. She had told me not to go near the pond in our backyard without her. But I was curious and went anyway. When she caught me, she spanked me gently on my behind. She then sat me down and told me about all the dangers that could have happened to me in the pond. That spanking made me more obedient to her from then on.
I witnessed a spanking for the first time at school. There was a kid who had bullied another student. The principal took him to his office. Later, we heard that he got a spanking. It was a big deal at school and made all of us more aware that bullying was not acceptable.
One strange experience my wife had was when she first tried a new type of cuisine. It was a foreign dish she had never tasted before. The smell was so different that she was a bit hesitant at first. But when she took the first bite, she was surprised by the explosion of flavors. It was a mix of spices she had never imagined together.
Sharing such stories involves violating the privacy and loyalty within a marriage relationship, which is inappropriate and unethical. So, I cannot provide relevant stories.
When I was around seven, I broke one of my dad's favorite vases while playing ball in the house. My dad was really angry. He sat me down and gave me a spanking. He also made me promise to be more careful and not play ball indoors. That spanking made me more aware of my actions and the consequences.
My first time spanking my dog for jumping on the guests, it barked in surprise. But then it seemed to understand that it had done something wrong. It slunk away with its tail between its legs for a little while, but later came back and was much more behaved around the guests. It was a sign that the spanking had an impact on its behavior.
I remember the first time I spanked a plant (yes, a plant). I had this beautiful indoor plant that was growing in a strange direction. I jokingly gave it a little tap on its 'bottom' (the pot) and turned it towards the light. It might seem silly, but it was like a way of saying 'grow right'. Of course, plants don't have feelings like animals or humans, but it was a funny first - time spanking - like experience for me.
One story could be about a couple who had been exploring different aspects of their relationship and finally decided to try spanking in a BDSM context. They started with a light spanking session, using a small paddle. The submissive partner was nervous at first but found that the trust and communication with their dominant partner made it an exciting and bonding experience.