If it's her own painting and she doesn't mind, then you can. But if it's a work in progress or something she wants to keep pristine for a while, you probably shouldn't.
Well, it depends. If the soft toys are yours or you have permission from the owner, then you can touch them. But if not, it's not polite to touch without asking.
Well, it depends on the cat. Some cats love to be petted and touched, while others might be a bit shy or even grumpy. So it's best to approach slowly and see how the cat reacts first.
No. It is completely inappropriate. Young children are not ready to handle such adult and complex topics. Their minds are in the process of developing and should be filled with positive, age - appropriate knowledge like stories about friendship, family values, and basic moral lessons.
It depends on what 'it' is. If it's her personal belongings like a favorite doll or a special book, you should ask for permission first. For example, if it's a handmade doll she treasures, she might be very protective of it.
Fairy tales are great. For example, 'Cinderella' which teaches about kindness and the idea that good things can come to those who are good - hearted. Another option is stories about animals, like 'The Tortoise and the Hare' which imparts the lesson of perseverance.
Even if you get permission, approach the pet slowly and gently. Let the pet sniff your hand first. This is a way to let the pet get used to you. If it seems comfortable, then you can carefully touch it, like stroking its back gently.
No, it is completely inappropriate. Little sisters are in a stage of innocent growth, and such topics are not suitable for them at all. These stories are adult - related and can have a very negative impact on their mental and physical development, including causing early sexual awareness in an improper way and potential psychological harm.