Sharing such stories is inappropriate and private. We should respect others' privacy and focus on positive and healthy topics like friendship, education or hobbies.
It can be considered a relatively private and not overly common experience to be openly discussed. For some girls, it might be a part of an exploration in an intimate relationship. However, different cultures and individuals have different attitudes towards such topics.
The first time giving a handjob to another guy can be a new and somewhat intimidating experience. One key aspect is hygiene. Wash your hands thoroughly before starting. During the act, you can vary the speed and grip slightly to see what he responds to best. It's also essential to have an open conversation beforehand about what each of you is comfortable with. This way, you can both relax and enjoy the experience more.
Well, for some, it can be a really nerve - wracking experience. There's often the fear of doing it wrong. I've heard that a lot of people are really careful at first, trying to figure out the right pressure and rhythm. It's also common to be a bit shy or self - conscious.
Well, it's not really common in the general sense for a straight guy to be in such a situation. Straight guys are typically more interested in sexual activities with the opposite sex in a more traditional way. But in some complex social or personal exploration situations, it might happen, though it's still not the norm.
One girl I knew was really nervous for her first speech. But she practiced a lot beforehand. She focused on her breathing and just told her story from the heart. In the end, she got a standing ovation.
To make it positive, be confident. Even if you're nervous, try not to show it too much. And listen to his feedback. If he gives you any hints or instructions, follow them. It can make the whole thing better for both of you.