My best friend died while traveling. He was exploring a new place when a natural disaster struck. I was devastated when I got the news. I still have the letters he sent me from his travels. Reading them now is bittersweet. It has been really difficult to move on, but I'm trying to cherish the memories we had.
At first, I didn't cope well at all. I just stayed in my room, looking at pictures of us. But then, I realized that my friend would have wanted me to move forward. So, I started to focus on my hobbies again. I joined a painting class, which allowed me to express my feelings in a different way. I also started to travel to the places we always planned to go together. It was a way for me to feel closer to my friend while also moving on with my life.
It was devastating. One day, we were just having a normal day, joking around. Then suddenly, my best friend got into an accident. By the time I reached the hospital, it was too late. I still remember the feeling of emptiness that filled me.
One way is to allow yourself to feel all the emotions. Don't hold back your tears or sadness. Another is to talk about your friend. Share the memories you had together with other friends or family. It helps to keep their spirit alive.
Sharing one's wife with a best friend is completely unethical in most ethical frameworks. Marriage is a bond based on loyalty, commitment, and exclusivity between two people. It violates the trust and respect that should exist within a marital relationship.
Write a letter to them. Pour out all your feelings, memories, and things you never got to say. Keep it in a special place. You can also celebrate their birthday or the anniversary of their passing in a meaningful way, like releasing balloons or having a small gathering with people who also knew them.
Dear Bestie
As I write this letter, I'm sitting at home staring blankly at the sky outside the window. Time flies. We have graduated for two years, but every time I think of the time we spent together, I can't help but feel emotional.
In these two years, we have experienced a lot of joy, sadness, and growth. I still remember the times we had classes together, exams together, and played together in school. Those times were always so short and beautiful. Now, we have embarked on different paths and faced different challenges and difficulties.
But I believe that our friendship will not fade with the passage of time, but will instead become stronger. We will still support each other and encourage each other. No matter what happens, we will face it together. I believe that we can go further with each other.
Finally, I want to say thank you for your company. We spent so many good times together, and we left behind so many good memories. May our friendship last forever!
Love your XXX
The following are some short vows to his best friend:
1. Never leave or abandon each other on the journey of life.
2. Support each other and walk together.
3. Always accompany and never leave.
4. To accompany each other to the ends of the earth.
5. To be together for life.
6. We'll weather the storm together.
True love will never change.
8. Trust and tolerate each other
9. Together for a lifetime.
10. To grow old together.
One big challenge is the fear of losing the friendship. If the romantic relationship doesn't work out, it might be hard to go back to being just friends. Another is that other friends might have different opinions and that could put pressure on the relationship. For example, some friends might think it's a bad idea and try to talk them out of it.
It's not ethical at all. Seducing anyone without clear consent is wrong, and when it comes to your best friend, it can seriously damage the friendship. In a gay context or any context for that matter, respect for the other person's feelings and boundaries should always be the top priority.