This kind of story involves non - consensual or immoral scenarios in most cases. If it is just some fictional or extremely inappropriate joke - like stories, it's better to firmly oppose it and communicate with your wife about positive and healthy relationship topics instead of trying to find a reaction to such improper content.
We should focus on positive, healthy and ethical literary and cinematic works. Such offensive content has no place in proper media, so I can't recommend any related works.
I'm not aware of any mainstream movies specifically based on such a theme. Such a concept often involves negative and inappropriate stereotypes and is not typically the subject of positive or widely promoted filmmaking.
No, it is completely unethical. Watching any sexual stories related to one's daughter is inappropriate and a violation of privacy, boundaries, and basic moral values. It can cause great harm to the daughter and the family relationship.
Well, if these are just innocent stories about the neighbor's daughter, like her school accomplishments or hobbies, then it can be a normal part of getting to know the neighbors better. However, if there is any sense of prying into her private life in a negative way, then it's not acceptable. We should respect everyone's privacy.
One major ethical issue is the promotion of racial and sexual objectification. It reduces individuals to just their race and sexual roles, which is dehumanizing.