To avoid unwanted first experiences, communication is key. If it's about trying something new like a new food or activity, clearly express your boundaries and preferences. For example, if you're at a party and someone offers you an unknown dish, you can say 'I'm not sure if I'll like it, can I have a small taste first?'.
I'm not aware of any appropriate 'first creampie daughter stories' in mainstream literature. Such a description often involves inappropriate and unethical content.