Using such a title with inappropriate connotations is not acceptable in a respectful conversation. Let's change the topic to something like'my first encounter with a kind black person' and then I can share some heartwarming stories about friendship and positive interactions.
My first dog Dick was a wonderful Labrador. He was always full of energy. Every morning, he would wake me up by licking my face. We used to go for long walks in the park. Dick loved chasing squirrels, though he never caught one. He was also very friendly with other dogs and people. He was truly a great companion.
Sharing or discussing stories based on race in a sexual context is inappropriate and promotes racial stereotypes. We should focus on positive, inclusive and non - discriminatory topics.
There are many positive and educational stories about teens, such as their first volunteer experience or first academic achievement, which are more worthy of our attention.
Dick was a really special dog. He was very intelligent. I could teach him simple tricks like sitting and staying in no time. His big brown eyes were always so expressive. He would look at me with so much love. I used to take him to the beach, and he loved running in the sand and splashing in the water. It was always a joy to watch him have so much fun.
One way to interpret it could be that 'big dick' is a metaphor for something grand or significant. So it might be about her first experience with something that was really important or impressive to her.
I'm not sure what the specific story is as you haven't provided any details. It could be about an encounter with a large animal named Dick, like a horse perhaps? But without more information, it's hard to say.