Yes, it can be a good idea. For example, my ex and I were in the same study group in college. After the break - up, we continued to study together. We were both focused on our academic goals and our shared ambition helped us stay friends. We didn't let the past relationship get in the way. We would even help each other with difficult assignments. Eventually, we both graduated with good grades and we still keep in touch, just as friends.
One of my friends, Sarah, managed to be friends with her ex, Tom. They realized that they had more in common as friends than as a couple. They both loved hiking and started going on hikes together again. It was a bit awkward at first, but they just focused on their shared hobby and now they're good friends. They support each other in their new relationships too.
Definitely. In some cases, if you have mutual friends, being friends with an ex can keep the social circle harmonious. Also, you might have shared some great memories in the past, and as friends, you can still cherish those memories without the romantic attachment. It can add a unique dimension to your friendship. You can learn from the relationship you had and grow as individuals while still being in each other's lives in a positive way.
Well, for me, being friends with an ex was strange at first. We had to get used to not having the romantic aspect. But we found that we still had common interests like our love for hiking. We could talk about new trails and share pictures. It was like starting a new kind of relationship based on friendship, but we also had to be careful not to cross the line and re - kindle old feelings.
There are indeed. One case I heard was that a guy and his ex-girlfriend remained friends. They were honest with each other about their feelings and boundaries. They now often hang out in the same friend group, and their friendship has even strengthened over time. They learned from their past relationship mistakes and made their friendship better.
First, communicate your feelings to your best friend. Let her know that it makes you uncomfortable. For example, say something like 'I'm not okay with you still being friends with my ex'. Second, set boundaries. Maybe ask her not to talk about your ex in front of you. I did this with my best friend, and it worked out okay in the end. Third, try to focus on your own life and new relationships. Don't let this situation consume you.
Getting involved in sexual activities with an ex can be a really confusing and often not a great idea. It might bring back old feelings, both good and bad, and can lead to more heartache in the end. For example, a friend of mine once had sex with her ex thinking it was just a one - time thing to get closure, but it ended up making her miss him more and reopened old wounds.
I got back with my ex once. We had broken up because of a silly fight. After a while, we both realized we still had feelings for each other. So we started talking again, went on a few dates, and got back together. It was like we picked up right where we left off.