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It's not common in most traditional relationships. However, in modern relationships where people are more open about their sexualities, it can happen. But it's important to note that if it makes you uncomfortable, it's not okay for your partner to keep it from you.
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One way to overcome the shock is to engage in self - reflection. Think about your own role in the relationship. Maybe you haven't been as attentive to her needs as you should have been. Also, you can go for a walk or do some exercise to clear your head before approaching the situation with your wife.
First, try to stay calm. Have an open and honest conversation with your wife about why she has such an item and how it makes you feel. Maybe she has some unmet needs or it could be part of her personal exploration that she hasn't been able to share with you.
Well, it's a really tough situation. You could seek the help of a relationship counselor. A professional can guide you both to understand each other better. It might be that your sexual relationship needs some re - evaluation and improvement. And it's important to respect each other's feelings during this process.