We should avoid such inappropriate topics. Instead, we could focus on positive family stories like 'times when mom showed great kindness' or 'instances of mom's selfless love'.
This is an extremely awkward and inappropriate situation. It goes against the norms of a healthy family relationship. You need to communicate your discomfort clearly. You can say 'Mom, this is not a topic that is suitable for discussion between us. Our conversations should be positive and appropriate. I hope this never comes up again.' If possible, try to distance yourself from such inappropriate conversations in the future and focus on building a more appropriate and healthy relationship.
This is a very inappropriate and uncomfortable situation. You should firmly and clearly tell your mom that this is an unacceptable topic. For example, you could say 'Mom, this is not an appropriate thing to ask me. I'm very uncomfortable with this conversation.'
Well, one horror story could be about someone having a really bad reaction due to an allergy during the act, like suddenly breaking out in hives which was really scary for both parties. It made them realize they should have known more about each other's health conditions beforehand.
For some, the first time is about discovery. The giver might be learning what the receiver likes. There could be a lot of trial and error. But once they find that sweet spot, it can lead to an amazing orgasm. It's like a journey of exploration together, with each moment adding to the anticipation and the final pleasure.