Well, my first date with my partner was a disaster at first. We went to a restaurant, but the food took forever to come. Then it rained heavily when we were about to leave. But during all those mishaps, we started to laugh together, found we had a great sense of humor. Now we are happily married.
I had a really bad first date at a restaurant. He was on his phone most of the time. It was so disrespectful. I was about to leave when he finally put his phone away. He then told me that he had just received some bad news at work but didn't want to cancel the date. He apologized sincerely. We started talking about our jobs and found out we were in similar fields. We had a lot to discuss and exchange ideas about. That made us want to see each other again, and it's been great ever since.
Well, my worst first date started with him being an hour late. He didn't even call to say he'd be late. But when he finally showed up, he was really apologetic. We went to a movie, but he talked through most of it. After that, we went for a walk and he accidentally stepped in a puddle and got his shoes all wet. It was a mess. But somehow, we just kept talking and found out we had a lot in common. We both loved the same old - school music and had a passion for traveling. We started hanging out more, and now we're actually a couple.
Sure. On my first date, I accidentally spilled coffee on myself. It was so clumsy. But my date just laughed it off and offered to buy me another one. We then started chatting more and found we both loved traveling. That little moment of acceptance on that terrible first date led to a wonderful relationship now.
My terrible first date story involves going to the movies. My date talked throughout the whole movie, spoiling it for everyone around us. After the movie, they were really rude to the staff at the theater. It was a nightmare.
One common element is bad communication. For example, if one person is really quiet or talks too much and doesn't let the other speak. Another is unexpected disasters like bad weather ruining outdoor plans. Also, rudeness can be a big part of it, like being mean to waitstaff or other people around.
There was a wife who on her first date was taken to a concert. She had never been to one before. She was so excited that she kept jumping and singing along. Her date was a bit shy at first but seeing her having so much fun, he also loosened up. They bonded over their shared love for music that night.
For a casual date, like going for a walk in the park, you can wear a nice pair of jeans and a stylish top. It's comfortable and still looks put - together.
A series of unfortunate events can lead to a terrible night out. For instance, you plan to see a movie but the theater has a power outage right when the movie is about to start. Then you try to find another activity, but everywhere you go is full or closed. You end up spending the whole night just wandering around feeling frustrated and disappointed.