Since I don't know this novel, we can make some educated guesses. Given the title 'zabt e gham', if 'zabt' means something like 'control' or 'capture' and 'gham' means'sorrow' in some languages, it might be about a character's struggle with controlling or coming to terms with their sorrow. It could involve family drama, where the character has to face the pain within the family unit and tries to manage it.
Someone who has been hurt in love might say this. For example, a person who has just gone through a difficult breakup. They might feel cynical about love at that moment and express their dislike for love stories as they remind them of their own pain.