In many arousal stories, there is a strong emotion at the core. It could be love, like in a romantic story where two people meet under extraordinary circumstances. Or it could be fear, as in a horror - like story where the character is in a spooky old house and every creak arouses fear and anticipation.
One common theme is passion. It often shows intense sexual desires between characters. Another could be exploration, like exploring new sexual experiences or boundaries. Also, love can be a theme, where sexual arousal is intertwined with deep emotional love.
Another benefit is improved sexual confidence. For instance, some women who were previously shy or self - conscious during sex found that using the gel made them feel more empowered and at ease. They could then fully engage in the sexual experience. Also, in some cases, it helped in reigniting the passion in long - term relationships. Couples who had grown a bit bored or routine - bound in their sex life found that the use of the gel by the woman brought back the excitement and novelty, leading to a more satisfying relationship overall.
I know a story. There was a student who was really into astronomy. One night, there was a meteor shower predicted. His arousal of excitement made him stay up all night on the rooftop with his telescope. He ended up seeing dozens of meteors streaking across the sky, and it was a moment that filled him with awe and wonder.
Yes, there are many alternatives. Physical touch like caressing or massage can be very arousing. Also, communication with a partner about sexual desires and fantasies can enhance arousal. Watching an erotic movie together might also be an option for some.