First of all, the father needs to stay calm. He could kneel down to her level and say, 'Sweetie, sex stories are not something we talk about in our family. But I can tell you a really cool story about when I was a kid and went on a big adventure in the woods. By doing this, he not only avoids the inappropriate topic but also shows her that there are much more interesting and appropriate stories to share.
He can simply say 'Honey, that's not a story we should be talking about.' and then start a different conversation about, say, a fairy tale or an adventure story.
A father can start by using age - appropriate books. For example, there are many children's books that explain the basic differences between boys and girls in a simple and non - threatening way. He can also answer her questions truthfully when she asks something related. Like if she wonders where babies come from, he can give a simple, scientific answer like 'Babies grow in a special place in a mommy's body called the uterus.'
A father can start by using age - appropriate books. For example, there are many children's books that introduce basic concepts of human body and differences between genders in a simple and innocent way. He can also use real - life examples, like when seeing a pregnant woman, explain how a baby is made in a very general sense.
Mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such topics are not appropriate for their conversation. She can say something like 'These are private and adult - related topics, not suitable for us to discuss. If you have questions about puberty or relationships in a general and proper way, we can talk about those with dad or a more appropriate person like a teacher.'
The mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such stories are not appropriate for them to discuss. She can say something like 'Those are not the kind of stories we talk about in our family.'
He should immediately apologize to his daughter. A simple 'I'm sorry, this was inappropriate' can be a start. He needs to recognize that his actions have made his daughter uncomfortable.
There were a few novels that could be recommended, including The Prime Minister's Daughter, Qin Di, and Cute Baby Descends from the Sky: Daddy, Tall, Rich and Handsome. " The Prime Minister's Daughter, Qin Di " told the story of the heroine, Qin Wanqing, who traveled to ancient times and helped her father, Qin Huai, become the prime minister of a generation. As for " Cute Baby Descends from the Sky: Daddy, Tall, Rich and Handsome," it was a story about a female protagonist who had a cute son. When she met her father, the cute baby thought that her father and his mother had tricked him together. These novels all involved the plot of a father asking his daughter for help.
You should first understand the key points of the story. Then, form your own opinion based on reliable information and facts.
You could offer a comforting hug or kind words to show support.
A father should immediately stop the conversation from going in that direction. He could say something like 'Sweetheart, that's not a proper topic for us to discuss. Let's talk about the fun things we did during our last vacation instead.' Then, he can engage her in positive and age - appropriate discussions to promote healthy communication.
This is a very inappropriate and uncomfortable situation. You should firmly tell your mom that such topics are not suitable for discussion. For example, you could say, 'Mom, this is a private and inappropriate topic, we should not talk about it.'