How can a family handle the awkwardness when a daughter's lesbian friend hits on the mom?

First, the mom should stay calm. Reacting impulsively might make the situation worse. She could start by having an open and honest conversation with her daughter. Let the daughter know that she is loved no matter what her sexual orientation is. And also, she should try to get to know the daughter's friend better in a friendly way.

I'd be really shocked at first. I'd probably talk to my lesbian friend privately and tell her that it's not okay. My mom is off - limits. I'd try to set clear boundaries.

First, don't panic. React calmly and cover yourself. Then, simply say 'I'm sorry, I didn't expect anyone.' Keep your words short and to the point to avoid making the situation more awkward.

One way is for the mother to have a private conversation with the son first, to clear the air. Then, the family can have a general discussion about respect for personal space. The father, if present, can play a role in mediating and making sure both sides feel comfortable. They can also use this as an opportunity to review family values regarding privacy and respect.

The simplest way is to pretend you saw nothing. Just turn around and leave as if it was a normal thing. This can save both of you from extreme embarrassment.

First, the lesbian friend needs to make sure she doesn't give mixed signals. She should clearly state her boundaries. For instance, she can say she doesn't want any romantic advances. Then, she can offer support and understanding to the straight friend. After all, it's not easy for the straight friend to deal with these unexpected feelings either. She can also suggest they focus on the aspects of their friendship that don't involve romance, like shared hobbies or mutual friends. By handling it with kindness and honesty, they can hopefully preserve their friendship.

Just be upfront. Talk about the awkwardness. Say 'Look, this is really awkward now, but we need to deal with it.' That can break the ice a bit.

Some lesbian moms handle family acceptance issues by being open and honest from the start. They sit down with their families and have a heart - to - heart conversation. If the family is initially resistant, they give them time to adjust and keep showing them the love and stability in their relationship and parenting.

First, trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is. Distance yourself from the situation if possible. Don't engage in any behavior that makes you uncomfortable.

Just be honest about the awkwardness. Acknowledge it and have a laugh about it. It can break the ice and make things more comfortable.