What should I do if I suspect my aunt has the hots for me?

First, you should try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Express your concerns and suspicions calmly.

This is a very serious and inappropriate situation. First, you should firmly and clearly tell your aunt that her behavior is unacceptable. Then, it might be necessary to talk to a trusted adult outside the situation, like a grandparent or family friend, who can help you deal with this difficult situation and protect you.

First, you should make sure your privacy is protected as much as possible. Close blinds or curtains if you are in a place where you can be seen from the neighbor's. Then, if you have evidence or strong suspicion, contact the police. They are trained to handle such situations.

You should tell your parents or another trusted adult immediately. They can help you deal with this inappropriate situation and ensure that you get proper and appropriate information about sex in the future.

If you suspect such a thing, first, try to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend. Ask her directly about your concerns in a calm way. Don't accuse immediately.

If you suspect the neighbors' boy is spying on you, the first step is to gather evidence if possible. This could be something like noting times when you feel you're being spied on. Then, you should talk to his parents. Politely explain your concerns. For example, you could say 'I've noticed some behavior from your son that makes me uncomfortable, like he seems to be watching me a lot.' They may be able to discipline him or find out what's really going on.

Gather evidence carefully if you suspect it. But don't become a stalker. Little things like her changed behavior, more time spent on her phone secretly can be signs. But don't jump to conclusions.

Immediately look away and leave the area as discreetly as possible. Then, try to forget about it and never mention it to anyone. It was an accident, and respecting her privacy is crucial.

If you suspect your wife has something to do with other men, gather evidence in a proper way. But don't be sneaky in an unethical way. If it turns out that she is having an affair, you need to decide whether you can forgive her. Some people choose to work through it with the help of marriage counseling, while others may decide to end the relationship.

If you suspect your wife is cheating, the first step is to communicate calmly. Sit down with her and express your concerns without accusations. Maybe there are misunderstandings that can be cleared up through honest conversation.