First, try to calmly point out that there are other sides to the story. Share some facts or different viewpoints that they might not have considered. For example, if they're talking about an argument they had with a colleague and only presenting their own view, you could mention something the colleague might have been experiencing at that time. This can help them become more aware of the importance of a balanced view.
One way is to provide counter - examples from similar situations where considering all sides led to a better outcome. Also, create a non - judgmental environment where they feel safe to explore other viewpoints. You could say something like 'I understand your point, but I've seen in other cases where looking at the whole picture made a big difference. Let's think about what the other person might have been going through.' This approach can gradually make them more open - minded and less likely to only focus on their own side of the story.
They are often self - centered. They tend to be more concerned about justifying themselves rather than understanding the whole situation.
You can politely interrupt and change the topic. For example, say something like 'That's interesting, but I just remembered something really cool I wanted to share...' and then start a new topic.
You could also be honest and tell them that you've heard the story before. Maybe say something like 'I really enjoy your stories, but I think you've told this one already. Do you have a new one?' It might seem a bit direct, but it can be effective if done kindly.
You could try changing the topic politely when they start. For example, say something like 'Hey, let's talk about something new today!'
We can simply walk away when a person tells bad stories. It's the easiest way to avoid being influenced by their negative tales.
Well, it depends on the relationship. If it's a close friend, I might be more indulgent. However, if it's someone I don't know well, I might try to find an excuse to end the conversation. I could say something like 'This has been great, but I have an appointment I need to get to.' Sometimes, I also try to find common ground where we can have a more concise conversation.
One way is to firmly but politely tell them that such topics are not appropriate for the current setting. For example, you can say 'This is not the right time or place to talk about this. Let's change the subject.'
First, we can try to clarify the truth. If it's on social media, we can post an explanation or the real story behind it. For example, if a picture shows someone stealing but in fact it was just a misunderstanding of the angle, the person wrongly accused can share what really happened at that time.
You can directly tell them that such stories are inappropriate in the workplace. Be firm and clear in your communication.
We can call them a great storyteller. They have the ability to create vivid and engaging tales that capture the imagination.