There was a case where a so - called 'nice guy' on an online dating platform turned out to be a predator. He seemed very friendly at first and quickly gained the trust of his matches. But then he started to isolate them from their friends and family, and became controlling and abusive. He used the information they shared during their early conversations to manipulate them.
Verify the identity of the person. In the case of the one with the fake photos, if the victims had done some simple checks like reverse image search, they might have uncovered the lie. Also, meet in public places for the first few times. Just like in the story of the controlling guy, if the victims had met him in public more often, it would have been harder for him to isolate them.
One common type is the false identity predator. They create fake profiles to deceive victims, like pretending to be someone of the same age or with a glamorous job. Another is the grooming type, where they slowly build a relationship with the victim over time to gain their trust before making any malicious moves.
One common characteristic is that they often pretend to be someone they're not, like a peer or a friendly person at first. For example, in many stories, they pose as a young person to gain the trust of their target.
One story is about a young girl who was befriended by an older man on a social media gaming platform. He seemed friendly at first, asking about her day and her hobbies. But then he started asking for more personal details like her home address under the guise of sending her a gift. Luckily, her parents noticed the strange behavior and reported it.
One sad story is when a girl met a guy online. They talked for months, seemed really into each other. But when they finally decided to meet in person, the guy just didn't show up. She was left waiting at the restaurant, feeling humiliated and heartbroken.
There was this instance where a man thought he was chatting with a normal woman on an online dating platform. However, as they video - called, the woman's face looked really strange. Later, he found out that she was using someone else's pictures. It turned out she had some malicious intentions and was trying to scam him.
One of my online dating disappointment stories was when the person I met online claimed to be single but turned out to be married. We had been chatting for weeks and seemed to have a great connection. When we finally met in person, he was constantly looking over his shoulder and acting really nervous. Later, I found out through a mutual acquaintance that he was married with kids. It was a huge let - down.
There was this guy who thought he had found the perfect match online. They had been talking for weeks. But on the date, the girl brought along her ex - boyfriend! She said she just wanted to make sure the new guy was better. It was so awkward and the poor guy felt like he had been used. This kind of situation is really among the worst in online dating.
One dangerous story is about a girl who met a guy on an online dating site. He seemed nice at first. But when they met in person, he tried to steal her purse and run away. Luckily, she was in a public place and people helped her.
One deadly online dating story could be about a person who met someone who seemed perfect online. They finally decided to meet in person. But the date turned out to be a scammer who tried to steal the victim's identity by getting access to their personal information during the date. Another story might involve someone who unknowingly dated a person with serious mental health issues. During the date, the person had a violent outburst and endangered the safety of the other. And there are also cases where people were lured into dangerous situations by false promises made on online dating platforms.