Take the case of Paul. He was a typical straight-acting guy, into sports and all the things that are associated with masculinity in his community. He had a female best friend whom everyone thought he would end up with. However, during a trip, he met a very unique individual named Leo. Leo had a very different perspective on life. Paul was initially reluctant to face the fact that he was drawn to Leo in a more than friendly way. As time passed and he explored his emotions more deeply, he realized he was gay and started to embrace this new part of his identity.