You can focus on the fact that she's getting medical care in the hospital, which means she's in a place where she can get better. You can also talk to other family members who are also worried, sharing your feelings can relieve some of the anxiety.
When mom is in the hospital, it's a tough situation. But you can try to find comfort in different ways. You could start a journal and write down your thoughts and feelings, which can be a form of catharsis. Another way is to get involved in the care process as much as you can within your ability. For example, helping with bringing in fresh clothes for mom or making sure she has her favorite snacks. Also, look for positive stories from other patients in the hospital, which might give you hope and make you feel better.
You can listen to your favorite music. It has the power to lift your mood.
First, don't be too worried. Try to talk to the doctors and nurses to understand mom's situation better. Then, you can share some positive news or memories with mom when you visit her in the hospital. Also, you can help with small things like keeping her room tidy.
Sometimes, you can find free social stories on specific mental health websites or blogs that offer resources for emotional management.
A social story can provide comfort and understanding. It might explain that mom's leaving doesn't mean she doesn't love you and could talk about ways to cope with the feelings.
Social interaction helps when you're sad by giving you a sense of belonging. It also allows you to receive different perspectives and advice that might change how you view your situation. Sometimes, just having a good laugh with others can turn your day around.
People often feel a sense of guilt. Moms have a certain authority, and when she catches you misbehaving or doing something wrong, you know you've let her down. For example, if you're caught lying to her, that guilt can be really strong. Also, there can be a bit of fear, especially if you think you'll be punished. Like when I was caught breaking a vase and I was worried about getting grounded.
They may feel closer to their mom. By listening to her stories, they get a deeper understanding of her life, which can strengthen their emotional bond.
He might feel embarrassed at first. Wearing girl's clothes can be quite different from what he's used to and he may worry about what others will think. But he could also feel curious. It's a new experience and he might be interested in how it feels to be dressed like a girl, like how the clothes fit and move.
Some sons might feel embarrassed, especially if they are in an environment where traditional gender roles are strongly emphasized. On the other hand, if the mom explains the situation well, like it's just for a game or a special event, he may be more accepting and even enjoy the novelty of it. If he has friends around and they react positively, that can also influence how he feels.
A social story that works well could be about a child who has a bad day but then realizes that tomorrow is a new start. It shows kids that bad feelings don't last forever. Or one where a kid helps someone else and forgets about their own sadness for a while, teaching them the power of kindness.