A more detailed response could be, 'I value our friendship, but this request is completely out of line. My body is private, and there are certain things that are just not meant to be shared in a friendship. We should focus on positive and appropriate aspects of our relationship, like having good conversations, sharing hobbies, and respecting each other's boundaries.'
Tell her straight away that it's not okay. For example, 'I'm sorry, but that's a private part of me and I can't show it to you.' Simple and direct is often the best approach.
This is completely inappropriate behavior. You should firmly tell your hubby that this is unacceptable and goes against moral and relationship boundaries.
You could say something like 'That's not an appropriate topic for discussion. Let's talk about something more positive and respectful.'
It is completely inappropriate. In a healthy friendship, we should focus on positive aspects like shared interests, emotional support, and mutual respect. Crossing the line to ask about or view private body parts is not acceptable behavior in any civilized society.
Politely suggest some positive and educational alternatives. Say something like 'I can't teach that story, but I can recommend some great children's books full of positive values.' This way, you can shift the focus to something more appropriate.
You should firmly say no. It's inappropriate and goes against privacy norms.
I was honest and said it was a mix of good and bad. Then I explained the specific parts that were either positive or negative.
You can simply laugh it off and say something like 'That's quite an interesting story.' It shows that you are taking it in good humor without being overly involved.
If your boss persists, it might be a sign of a very unprofessional and inappropriate work environment. You could consider reporting this behavior to a higher - up or the HR department. For example, you can say 'I'm sorry, but this is not an appropriate topic at work. I would like to focus on work - related matters.'
She simply refused. She said that I should focus more on my studies rather than new dresses.
You could just tell them directly and ask them to check it out.