How would you react if you heard a 'true story' about a wife giving a friend a blowjob?

I would be disgusted. It's a very inappropriate and unhygienic scenario to even think about.

I would think it's a sign of a very negative and judgmental society. We should focus on who a person is now, not on unfounded rumors about their past. And if possible, I would try to correct the false narrative if it was being spread around me.

I would be horrified. Such a story goes against basic moral and relationship values.

The husband's reaction could vary. Some might immediately confront the wife and the friend, demanding an explanation. Others might be so devastated that they go into a state of denial at first. In the long run, he may choose to divorce as it's a very serious violation of the marital bond, or he could try to forgive if he truly loves his wife and believes in the possibility of rebuilding trust, but it would be an extremely difficult process.

This is a very private and inappropriate topic to share in a general context. We should focus on positive, respectful and family - friendly stories instead.

One should firmly stop them and tell them that this is not an appropriate topic. For example, you could say 'This is too private and inappropriate, please don't talk about it.'

It would likely destroy the marriage. The husband would feel betrayed and it would be very difficult to regain trust. As for the friendship, it would also be severely damaged as this is an extremely inappropriate act.

This is such a difficult and painful situation. You're likely feeling a whole range of emotions like anger, betrayal, and sadness. It could be a good idea to seek the advice of a professional counselor. They can help you sort through your feelings and figure out the best way forward. You may also need to think about your future relationship with your friend. If he knew your wife was married to you and still did this, it might be best to cut ties. As for your marriage, it will take a lot of work and communication to repair the damage, if that's even possible.

Well, you could start by joking about it. Say something like 'Honey, this gift is really unique!' and then gently suggest that next time she could consider your preferences a bit more. But don't be too critical as she probably meant well.

He might be okay with it if he trusts his wife and knows that the friendship is platonic. He could see it as his wife being sociable.