Be direct. Look him in the eye and say 'Stop. This is wrong.' Simple and clear communication is often the best first step. If he tries to brush it off or make excuses, repeat yourself firmly.
The first step is to recognize that what you're doing is wrong. Then, you should cut off all private and inappropriate interactions. Avoid being alone together. If necessary, you can confide in a more mature and trustworthy family member who can help keep you accountable and guide you to make the right decisions.
Well, this is a tough situation. You need to protect yourself both physically and emotionally. Avoid being alone with him. Try to involve other family members in group activities so that there are always other people around. If he doesn't respect your boundaries, you may have to consider taking more drastic measures like involving the authorities or getting a restraining order, but this should be a last resort after trying to resolve the issue within the family first.
Try to change the subject when she starts to tell the same story. For instance, if she begins, you can quickly say 'Mom, did you hear about this new thing that happened at school?' This will divert her attention and stop her from going into the familiar story. Another option is to introduce her to new stories. Maybe give her a book of short stories and ask her to read them so she has new material.
Just be firm and tell your cousin 'No, don't do that'. Kids need clear boundaries.
Tell him straight up that it's not okay. Family relationships should be based on respect and appropriate behavior. Don't be afraid to be firm. For example, say 'I'm not interested in this kind of relationship with you. We are cousins and this is wrong.'
Tell him directly. Say 'Those are my stories, and they are important to me. You treating them in this way is disrespectful and wrong.' Simple and straightforward communication can often get the point across.
Give him space. Don't be overly pushy in trying to interact. Sometimes, people need time to warm up. Just be consistently friendly from a distance at first.
This is a very difficult situation. First, it's important to firmly and clearly tell your cousin that this behavior is unacceptable. You have the right to set boundaries. Then, you might consider avoiding being alone with your cousin for a while. If the situation continues or makes you uncomfortable, it could be a good idea to talk to a trusted adult outside of the family, like a counselor or a family friend who can give objective advice.
I recommend you a book called "A Student God is Easy to Push, Not Easy to Fall". This novel tells the story of a black-bellied male god who played all his tricks and cheated a cute and silly foodie. He also doted on the female lead from the beginning to the end and was loyal to her. Perhaps your boyfriend is like the male protagonist, addicted to the world in the novel, but his actions also fully demonstrate that he cares about you and doesn't want you to leave. Perhaps you can read this novel together and experience the love and romance between the male protagonist and the female protagonist. I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~😗
Well, my gay cousin and I once went to a pride parade together. It was such an amazing experience. We saw so many people being their true selves, and it made my cousin feel really accepted. He was beaming the whole time, and we got some really cool rainbow stuff. It was a day full of love and celebration.