One unexpected thing is that you might find out you have a really strong connection right away. For example, you start talking about your dreams and goals and they match up perfectly. Or perhaps the food at the restaurant is so bad that instead of it ruining the date, you both end up laughing about it and finding a new place to go. It could also be that one of you has an allergic reaction to something in the environment which then leads to a whole different kind of interaction as you deal with it together.
On a Tinder first date, an unexpected thing could be running into someone you both know. It can be really awkward or actually make the date more interesting. Another thing is the place you choose might be closed or have some special event going on that changes your whole plan.
On my Tinder date, we went to a food truck festival. My date was so excited about trying all the different foods. But when he took a big bite of a really spicy taco, his face turned bright red and he started chugging water. His reaction was hilarious and we still talk about that moment.
A really crazy first date scenario is when you find out that your date has a completely different personality than you thought. For example, they seem really quiet at first but then suddenly start rapping when you pass by a street performer. Or perhaps the conversation takes a really strange turn and you end up discussing conspiracy theories all night. It can be both bewildering and exciting.
On a first date at the movies, the guy accidentally sat in the wrong seat. When the actual person showed up, there was a bit of confusion. But then they all started chatting and ended up sharing popcorn. It was a really strange but funny start to the date. They still went on to have a great time at the movie and after.
The worst could be finding out the person is a liar. For example, they lied about their job or age. Another bad thing is when the date tries to be too physical too soon. And then there's the case where they are super rude to the staff at the place of the date.
The worst things? Firstly, the physical discomfort is horrible. You're in pain and constantly worried. Secondly, it can make the first date end very abruptly. If the diarrhea is really bad, you might have to cut the date short and leave, which is not a good impression. Thirdly, it can create a negative memory associated with the person. Even if the other person is understanding, every time you think back to the first date, you'll remember the diarrhea incident and it might overshadow any positive feelings that could have developed.
One unexpected thing could be finding a stray kitten on your doorstep. You'd have to figure out what to do with it, whether to take it in, find its owner or contact an animal shelter.
A girl had a Tinder first date at an art gallery. The guy she met was really into art and he showed her around, explaining the different paintings and sculptures. They got into deep conversations about their interpretations of the art. After that, they went for a coffee nearby and talked for hours. It was a great start to what became a long - term relationship.
An unexpected discovery could be an old item that she had forgotten about. For instance, she might find an old lipstick at the back of a drawer that she used to love but hadn't seen in ages. Or perhaps a small trinket that she thought she had lost long ago. It can bring back memories and be a bit of a pleasant surprise in the midst of an ordinary day in the restroom.
One unexpected thing could be encountering a rare species of fish. For example, on an adult fishing trip in a deep forest lake, someone might reel in a fish that is not commonly found in that area. Another could be bad weather suddenly hitting. Like a sudden storm that forces everyone to take shelter under a big tree or in their fishing boats if they are close to shore.
Maybe the gift you planned for your mother goes terribly wrong. For example, you order a piece of jewelry online and it turns out to be a fake. When your mother opens it, she can tell right away. It makes her sad and disappointed, which is a horrible way to spend Mother's Day.