Shared experiences also play a huge role. They might face a common enemy, like a new dark wizard threat. Working together to fight this threat, they see each other's strengths. Draco sees Hermione's bravery in battle and Hermione sees Draco's strategic mind. These shared experiences make them respect and love each other more, despite their differences.
They communicate. Hermione, being the intelligent and logical one, would likely sit Draco down and have honest conversations about their differences. For example, she might talk about how his pure - blood supremacist views are wrong. Draco, having grown after the war, would listen and try to change. This open communication helps them bridge the gap.
Often, they are put in situations where they have to rely on each other. Like in a dangerous magical quest. Hermione's knowledge of spells and Fleur's combat skills are both needed. At first, they might argue about the best way to proceed. But as they face challenges together, they see the value in each other's ways. They start to respect their differences and it becomes a strength in their relationship.
Hermione's personality might become more open - minded. Initially, she has a very fixed view of Draco as a bully. But with the marriage contract, she has to see him in a different light. She might become more empathetic towards him. For Draco, he could become less arrogant. The forced proximity with Hermione makes him realize that his pure - blood supremacist views are not as valid as he thought. He starts to respect Hermione's Muggle - born status and even learn from her in some ways.
Often, their shared love for magic acts as a bridge. They might participate in international magical events together, where they see how different cultures approach magic. This mutual interest in magic makes them more accepting of each other's cultural differences. In a particular story, they work on a magical research project that involves both Bulgarian and British magic, which forces them to deal with their cultural disparities head - on and find common ground.
Often, they forgive each other. Take 'Persuasion' by Jane Austen. Anne Elliot and Captain Wentworth were once separated because of Anne's family's persuasion. When they reunite, they have to forgive the past mistakes and misunderstandings to be together again. They realize that love is more important than pride or past grudges. This act of forgiveness allows them to move forward in their relationship.
They usually start by getting to know each other better. In a lot of childhood enemies romance novels, they might be in the same social circle or family friends but never really talked. Once they start having real conversations, they find out they have common interests or similar values. Also, external events can play a role. If there's a crisis or a big event that they both care about, they put aside their differences to deal with it. This new - found cooperation can lead to them seeing each other in a new light. In some cases, they might also be physically attracted to each other and this initial spark of attraction makes them more willing to overlook their past enmity.
Communication is key. Interracial couples should openly talk about their cultural differences. For example, if there are different religious beliefs, they need to discuss how they will raise their children, if they plan to have any.
They might start by understanding each other's motives. Naruto, with his empathetic nature, tries to see things from Zabuza's perspective. Zabuza, in turn, begins to appreciate Naruto's positive outlook. Communication is also key. They talk about their pasts, their dreams, and what they want from life. This helps them to bridge the gap between their differences.
Hermione might become more guarded initially. Given her history with Draco, she would be cautious about opening up. But as the relationship progresses, she could become more empathetic towards Draco's situation. Draco, on the other hand, may start to shed some of his pure - blood arrogance. He might become more open - minded and less judgmental as he gets to know Hermione better.
A common plot is a time - travel scenario. Hermione might accidentally go back in time and meet a younger Draco. They initially clash due to their different backgrounds and beliefs. But as she gets to know him better and tries to influence his future actions to be more positive, they develop feelings for each other. This bond then follows them back to their original time, leading to a relationship and marriage.
They communicate openly. Hermione, being the intelligent witch she is, would ask Viktor about his Bulgarian culture and traditions. Viktor, on the other hand, would show curiosity about the Hogwarts way of life. They would learn from each other's magic systems too. For example, Viktor might teach Hermione some Bulgarian hexes, and Hermione could share some of Hogwarts' unique spells.