There was a wife who was a great cook. She and her husband had an understanding where she was submissive to his wishes when it came to family traditions and values. But she was free to experiment with new recipes in the kitchen. For example, she would make traditional family meals for holidays as he liked, but during the week, she would try out new and exciting international cuisines. Their relationship was based on mutual respect and her ability to be both submissive and free within the relationship.
Sure. There was a couple where the wife was really into art. She was free - spirited but also submissive in the relationship in a good way. Her husband was an entrepreneur. When he had to travel for business a lot, instead of complaining, she supported him fully. She used the time to focus on her art, and when he was back, she would listen to his business ideas and give her input. They had a great balance where she was submissive to the needs of the relationship but also free to pursue her own passion.