I don't have a hotwife experience myself, but I can imagine it might be a very unique and complex situation. It could involve a lot of communication and trust building between the couple before embarking on such an experience.
Well, I haven't had this kind of experience. However, if someone were to have a first real hotwife experience, it would probably start with an open conversation between the partners about their desires and boundaries. Then, it might involve meeting new people in a consensual and safe environment.
Since I don't have a personal first real hotwife experience story, I can only speculate. It seems that it would be a journey full of new emotions. There would need to be a great deal of respect for each other's feelings. It might also require a strong sense of self - confidence from both parties to handle the various situations that could arise during this kind of experience.