Lack of appreciation is also quite common. Sometimes the family just doesn't seem to value all that the mother does. They might take her daily efforts for granted and not make an extra effort on Mother's Day. It could be as simple as not helping with the chores or not making her feel special. For example, if the kids leave their mess everywhere and don't clean up for her on Mother's Day, it can be a part of a bad story.
In a particular bad Mother's Day story, a mother received a bunch of flowers, but they were from the wrong delivery. They were meant for another mother in the neighborhood. Her own family hadn't actually arranged anything for her. She had to deal with the embarrassment of explaining to the delivery person and then felt really let down by her family who didn't seem to care enough to plan something special for her.
A single mother was hoping for a quiet Mother's Day at home. But her kids got into a huge fight early in the morning. They broke a precious vase she had. She then had to spend the whole day trying to sort out their problems instead of having a relaxing day to herself.
One bad Mother's Day story could be that a family completely forgot about it. The mother woke up to a normal day, no cards, no breakfast in bed, and everyone was just going about their usual business as if it were any other day. She was really hurt and disappointed because she always made an effort for them on their special days.
One common element is unexpected mishaps. Like things breaking or going wrong suddenly. For example, a coffee maker breaking in the morning can start a bad day.
In religious mother's day stories, the idea of divine guidance is often present. Mothers are seen as being guided by their religious beliefs to make the right decisions for their families. In a Muslim family, the mother might rely on the Quran for guidance in raising her children. Another element is the community aspect. In a religious community, Mother's Day might be celebrated together, with the mother being honored in a religious service. For example, in a Presbyterian church, there could be a special service on Mother's Day where the mothers are recognized and prayed for.
One common element is a chain reaction of bad events. Say you start your day with a minor inconvenience like missing the bus. Then, because of that, you're late for work, which makes your boss angry. And then you get more stressed and make more mistakes during the day. It's like one bad thing leads to another, and before you know it, the whole day is just a mess.
One common element is appearance issues. Like having unruly hair, as I had on a day when my curls went wild. Another is clothing problems. For example, getting a stain on your shirt right before the picture. And sometimes it's health - related, such as having a red nose from a cold or puffy eyes from lack of sleep.
One common element is unexpected events. Like suddenly getting sick or having some equipment break, like your car or a necessary tool for work or study. Another is bad timing. For example, when you're already running late and then something else goes wrong, like traffic being extra bad. Also, things not going as planned. Just like when you plan a nice outdoor event and the weather turns bad.
Often, pets get involved in Mother's Day. One family had a dog that stole the Mother's Day flowers and ran around the house with them in its mouth. The mom was chasing the dog and laughing at the same time. It was quite a sight.
Often, one common element is unexpected technical problems, like computers crashing or printers not working. Another could be difficult coworkers or bosses who create extra stress.