One way is to be more inquisitive in a respectful way. Instead of just using someone's name in a casual greeting, we can ask open - ended questions to learn more about their story. For example, if you meet someone at a social event, instead of just saying 'Hi, [name]', you could say 'Hi, [name]. I'm really interested in how you got into the field you're in.' This shows that you recognize that there is more to them than just their name and you want to know their story.
In daily life, we should be more open - minded. When we meet new people, rather than just knowing their name and thinking we know them, we should ask questions about their background, interests, and dreams. For example, at a social gathering, instead of just greeting someone by name and moving on, engage in a conversation. Listen to their story of how they got into their current field of study or work. This way, we can avoid misjudging people and build more meaningful relationships.
We can start by being more present in the moment. For instance, when we are having a meal, instead of just thinking about the next task, we savor the taste, the company, and the experience. Also, when we face difficulties, we should see them as part of the journey and opportunities for growth rather than obstacles preventing us from reaching a destination.
We should be more patient. Since life isn't a short story, we can't expect instant results. For example, if we're working towards a fitness goal, we know it won't be achieved overnight just like a short - term plot in a story. Instead, we keep at it day by day.
We can start by not expecting every relationship to be like a fairytale. For example, in dating, don't assume that every date will lead to a perfect, long - lasting love. Be more realistic about the potential flaws and challenges.
We can start by seeing every day as a new page in our 'life novel'. Try to make each day interesting and meaningful, like adding an exciting plot twist to a story.
To apply the idea of 'life between life stories' in our daily lives, we need to change our perspective. Consider the time between waking up and starting work. Instead of rushing through it, we can make it a time for self - care like having a proper breakfast, doing some light exercise, or just sitting quietly and preparing mentally for the day. By doing so, we are acknowledging that these in - between times are not just filler but an important part of our overall well - being and life experience.
Well, we can see every moment as an opportunity. For example, if you go on a trip and things don't go as planned, instead of being frustrated, you can think of it as a good story to tell later. Just embrace the unexpected, and you'll find that both good times and the not - so - perfect times can add value to your life.
In our careers, we can't assume that there will be a clear path to success like in an Agatha Christie mystery. We might face setbacks that don't have an obvious cause or solution. So, we need to be adaptable and keep trying different things instead of waiting for a 'clue' to fall into our laps. Also, when dealing with people, not everyone has a clear motive like the characters in her novels. We have to be more patient and not jump to conclusions about others' actions.
We can look for signs of God's presence in the events that happen to us each day, seeing our own lives as a story where God is involved.
In real life, we can apply it by not making assumptions about people based on their names. For example, if someone has a name that is associated with a certain culture or profession, don't assume they fit all the stereotypes related to that. Treat each person as an individual with their own unique story.